Духовная традиция и современность

Мир человека => Человек и общество => Тема начата: no-name от 01 ЮЪвпСап 2017, 00:13:56

Название: О модальности высказываний в диалоге
Отправлено: no-name от 01 ЮЪвпСап 2017, 00:13:56: Добавить этот материал к "Общим принципам диалога (http://forum.sufism.ru/index.php?topic=1898.0)" не удалось, хотя он по теме, поэтому размещаю данный отрывок из биографии Бенджамина Франклина (https://ru.wikipedia.org/wiki/Франклин,_Бенджамин) здесь. Правда, на английском языке.

I made it a rule to forbear all direct contradictions to the sentiments of others, and all positive assertion of my own. I even forbade myself the use of every word or expression in the language that imported a fixed opinion, such as "certainly", "undoubtedly", etc. I adopted instead of them "I conceive","I apprehend", or "I imagine" a thing to be so or so; or "so it appears to me at present". When another asserted something that I thought an error, I denied myself the pleasure of contradicting him abruptly, and of showing him immediately some absurdity in his proposition. In answering I began by observing that in certain cases or circumstances his opinion would be right, but in the present case there appeared or seеmed to me some difference, etc. I soon found the advantage of this change in my manner; the conversations I engaged in went on more pleasantly. The modest way in which I proposed my opinions procured them a readier reception and less contradiction. I had less mortification when I was found to be in the wrong, and I more easily prevailed with others to give up their mistakes and join with me when I happened to be in the right.

(Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin (http://www.anvari.org/fortune/Miscellaneous_Collections/368635_i-made-it-a-rule-to-forbear-all-direct-contradictions-to-the-sentiments-of-others-and-all-positive-assertion-of-my-own.html))